Thursday, December 15, 2016

Advent Week 3: Thursday

Family Scripture Reading: Matthew  1:19-25

Joseph Accepts Jesus as His Son

18 This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about[d]: His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit.19 Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet[e] did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly.
20 But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. 21 She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus,[f] because he will save his people from their sins.”
22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel”[g] (which means “God with us”).
24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. 25 But he did not consummate their marriage until she gave birth to a son. And he gave him the name Jesus.





Family Application:  Often our dads are left out and the focus in on our moms.  Tonight make it all about dad.  Have his favorite meal for dinner.  Watch his favorite movie or show.  Give him lots of hugs and compliments.

An example of a gift  If your child rides the bus put together a package of thanks for them. 

Family Craft Project— Tonight make an edible advent wreath.  You can do this with many different food items.  One is a doughnut with simple birthday candles on it.  You can make a bunt cake and put a white candle in the middle with birthday candles on it to represent each week of advent. 

Wednesday, December 14, 2016

Advent Week 3: Wednesday

Did You Know? Mary was a young girl, probably 12 or 13, engaged to a carpenter named Joseph. Mary and Joseph lived in a small town, Nazareth, which is never mentioned in the Old Testament. They were an ordinary couple in an average town, until the angels’ visits.
Many assume those who are blessed by angelic visits will enjoy wealth and good health. Mary’s blessing, however, is pregnancy out of wedlock, which nearly ends her engagement, except that an angel visits Joseph as well. This blessing is unconventional to say the least—but it’s God’s way of sending unconditional love to humanity. Mary and Joseph’s angelic visitors remind us that God shows God’s love and care to us in sometimes surprising and unconventional ways.
While Mary and Joseph may have been an ordinary and powerless couple in Nazareth, Caesar Augustus was the most powerful person in the world. When Emperor Augustus decided that everyone must travel to their hometowns to be registered, that’s what happened. It didn’t matter if this required a journey of over 60 miles on foot. And it didn’t matter if you were pregnant. So, Joseph and Mary journeyed to Bethlehem.
When they arrived, it was time for Mary to give birth. However, many other people had come to Bethlehem also, so there was no room for Mary and Joseph in the guest room. And so, Jesus was born in the room where animals are kept, and laid in a manger on a bed of hay. God’s son began life humbly, in stark contrast to the power of Emperor Augustus. As we celebrate Jesus’ birth, we want to honor Jesus as a king.

(deepbluekids.com)


Family Application: Ask each other I wonder questions.  I wonder what it would have been like to be Mary and to be expecting a child when she was so young.  I wonder what it would have been like to have been pregnant and traveling far from home.  I wonder what they saw on their travels.

An example of a gift/
Family Craft Project  Since our theme for Advent is Jesus and Coffee, have the family make a card for the teachers in their lives and then take a cup of coffee and the card to them.  Parents—take one to your small group leaders or your boss.

Tuesday, December 13, 2016

Advent Week 3: Tuesday

Family Scripture Reading: Luke 1:26-38 The Birth of Jesus Foretold

26 In the sixth month of Elizabeth’s pregnancy, God sent the angel Gabriel to Nazareth, a town in Galilee, 27 to a virgin pledged to be married to a man named Joseph, a descendant of David. The virgin’s name was Mary. 28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.”
29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”
34 “How will this be,” Mary asked the angel, “since I am a virgin?”
35 The angel answered, “The Holy Spirit will come on you, and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. So the holy one to be born will be called[b] the Son of God. 36 Even Elizabeth your relative is going to have a child in her old age, and she who was said to be unable to conceive is in her sixth month. 37 For no word from God will ever fail.”
38 “I am the Lord’s servant,” Mary answered. “May your word to me be fulfilled.” Then the angel left her.


After doing the Advent wreath reading and then the daily Scripture reading go through each of the calendars and talk about our hope and God’s love end with the joy that God gives us.
Family Application: Parents share the stories of when you found out you were going to have each of our children and share with them how you told everyone.  Share with them their baby books if they have one and photos of when they were born.  Then share with them the story of when you were born and your baby photos.
An example of a gift  One of the people that get left out is our mail carriers.  Today leave a treat for your mail carrier with a note of thanks for all they do.  If your going to be home when they come by, give them a warm cup of hot chocolate.
Family Craft Project— Color a nativity as a family.


The prayer today is a bit different.  Have everyone sit in a circle and hold hands as you read and breathe.
Remember a time you were happy. We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us that God is with us when we are happy..
Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Remember a time when you were excited. We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us God is with us when we are excited.
Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Remember a time when you were hurt.  We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us that God is with us when we are hurt.
Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Remember a time when you were angry.  We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us that God is with us when we’re angry.
Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Remember a time when you were sad.  We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us that God is with us when we are sad.
Take a deep breath and then let it out.
Remember a time when you felt loved.  We celebrate the birth of Jesus, which reminds us that God is with us and loves us all the time.
Take a deep breath and then let it out.

Monday, December 12, 2016

Advent Week 3: Monday

Family Scripture Reading: Matthew 1:1-16



Family Application: If you have a family tree pull it out and share it as a family.  If you don’t create a family tree and share stories about family members.

An example of a gift :  Put together a stocking for a resident in a nursing home. Some ideas for things to put in the stocking: hard candy, lip gloss, tissues, word searches, card , handmade craft, soap, slippers, warm socks, and  blankets. 

Family Craft Project— Hand out a name of a person from the nativity scene and have them find something in the house that represents that person.  For example,  a tie representing Joseph or a baby doll  or stuffed animal for baby Jesus.  Put all the items together and create your own modge podge nativity scene.

God, thank you for the gift of your son, Jesus, Thank you for your
never-ending love for us and your presence with us always.  Amen.

Sunday, December 11, 2016

Advent Week 3: Sunday

Advent Wreath
Light the 1st purple candle of Hope
Light the 2nd purple candle of Love

After the angel came to Mary and told her that she would conceive the child in her womb and would call him Jesus, Mary said, “Here am I, the servant of the Lord; let it be with me according to your word.” (Luke 1:38, NRSV.)
And Mary sings her Song of Praise:
…My soul magnifies the Lord…he has scattered the proud
   …He has brought down the powerful from their thrones
       …He has lifted up the lowly
         …He has filled the hungry
             …He has provided for the poor (Luke 1:46-55)
We marvel at Mary, the mother of the Messiah, herself a single, teenaged mother, herself poor and powerless. But she understood that the baby she would call Jesus was sent, not just to her, but to the world…
…To the hungry
    …To the weak
      …To the very young and the very old
         …To those who suffer or are in pain
[Light he rose candle on the Advent wreath.]
We light this third candle to remember Mary, the mother of Jesus. May the light of this candle also remind us that the light of Jesus shines for everyone.
ALL: COME, LORD JESUS. AMEN.
http://www.umcdiscipleship.org/resources/2014-advent-wreath-meditations-second-sunday-of-advent-mcintyre


Directions:
Each night when you gather with family to pray:
· Light the candles and read the liturgy for the week
· Read the days Scripture
· Then do the family application, giving back to God and family craft.
· Pray together as you close out your time.

What does it mean to be joyful?

Simple Definition of joy
         http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/joy
· : a feeling of great happiness
· : a source or cause of great happiness 
· : something or someone that gives joy to someone
· : success in doing, finding, or getting something

As a family write your definition of joy.  What brings you joy? Then as a family do something that gives you all joy.  Make cookies and share them or do a blanket fort in the living room.


Saturday, December 10, 2016

Advent Week 2: Saturday

Family Scripture Reading: Psalm 72:1-7, 18-19
72:1 Give the king your justice, O God, and your righteousness to a king's son.

72:2 May he judge your people with righteousness, and your poor with justice.

72:3 May the mountains yield prosperity for the people, and the hills, in righteousness.

72:4 May he defend the cause of the poor of the people, give deliverance to the needy, and crush the oppressor.

72:5 May he live while the sun endures, and as long as the moon, throughout all generations.

72:6 May he be like rain that falls on the mown grass, like showers that water the earth.

72:7 In his days may righteousness flourish and peace abound, until the moon is no more.

72:18 Blessed be the LORD, the God of Israel, who alone does wondrous things.

72:19 Blessed be his glorious name forever; may his glory fill the whole earth. Amen and Amen.


Prayer Beads for United Methodists
Kristin Vincent teaches people to pray with beads.  Kristen Vincent, Prayer Bead Artisan: “They might start with the cross and just say, ‘Gracious God.’ And then with each bead, they’re lifting up a different way in which they want to praise God.”
Kristen Vincent to group: “And that’s when you begin to hear God’s voice.” The idea may surprise some Protestants who associate prayer beads with other religious traditions. That’s why the artist, and her United Methodist pastor husband, have written books about the practice.
Kristen Vincent: “We’ve grown up bead-less, basically. This is what I do fulltime because the response has been so tremendous. And there is still so much work to be done because the majority of the Protestant church doesn’t even know that we have a prayer tool, that we have prayer beads.”
The roots run deep into the Old Testament, where God told the Israelites to take comfort in something they could hold. Kristen Vincent: “God comes to them in Numbers, Chapter 15, and says, ‘Take the fringe on your garments and hold onto it, and remember that I am the Lord your God.” And I think that that’s God’s way of saying, ‘Take a common ordinary everyday object.’ And indeed throughout the history of the early church Christians were taking pebbles or rope or beads and using that to help them focus in prayer.”  Vincent makes and sells strands and kits in various colors and styles that cover prayer intentions from breast cancer, to the Earth and Creation. This is a tool that can help people of all ages find focus.
Kristen Vincent: “Prayer is vague to all of us, but it’s particularly vague to children. And so, the prayer beads offer kind of a concrete tool to help them better understand how to talk to God. And they’ll pick out different colors, the color that represents their mom or their dog or their best friend. And then when they get to that bead, they will hold that and say, ‘This is for my mom’ and they’ll pray for their mom.”
Vincent volunteers with soldiers, showing them how to use prayer beads to alleviate symptoms of PTSD and heal their relationship with God. Churches may make prayer strands for shut-ins, to take on mission trips, or as a church fundraiser.  Kristen Vincent: “We’ve heard of churches where all of the staff members have prayer beads. At a certain time, they will all stop wherever they are in their various places, and take their prayer beads and pray for the congregation.”  Prayer beads can be ornate or as simple as beads strung by children on pipe cleaners. Smaller strands called chaplets are pocket-sized, for taking God on the go.   Kristen Vincent:  “Just holding them in your hand is a way of understanding that God is as close to you as the beads are in your hand. My hope overall is that people will understand that God is with them at every moment of every day, and that God always loves them deeply.”
http://www.umc.org/what-we-believe/transcript-prayer-beads-for-united-methodists

Family Application:  /An example of a gift / Family Craft Project— Make prayer beads for each family member. See next page for instructions.  After you have made the prayer beads for each family member make one to give to someone else.  Then use the prayer beads to pray.  Give the prayer beads to someone with a copy of the following.

Prayer Beads
Large Bead  The Lord's Prayer Loving God, hear my prayer
Violet Bead I pray for oppressed people everywhere, help me to work for justice.
Indigo Bead I pray for people who suffer because of their religious or political beliefs.
Mauve Bead I pray for people who are trapped within abusive relationships. Loving God, hear my prayer
Dark Blue Bead I pray for those who feel sad today, help me to comfort the downhearted.
Medium Blue Bead I pray for those who face an uncertain future because of health or work worries.
Light Blue Bead I pray with thanks for those people I love and those who love me. Loving God, hear my prayer
Dark Green Bead Thank you for this beautiful world, help me to care for it.
Light Green Bead Thank you for the diversity of plants and animals, help me to use resources wisely.
Turquoise Thank you for the oceans, seas and rivers, teeming with life. Loving God, hear my prayer
White (or pale yellow) Bead I pray for the Make Poverty History campaign, that all your people can know abundant life.
Yellow Bead I pray for those caught up in conflict and violence, help me to bring peace into the world.
Dark Yellow Bead I pray for relief and development charities and those working for fair trade.
Loving God, hear my prayer
Bright Orange Bead Thank you for children, help me to see your face in each child.
Dark Orange Bead Thank you for older people, help me to value the stories of others.
Salmon Bead I pray for…  Loving God, hear my prayer
Dark Pink Bead Thank you for all people of faith, help us to work together for good.
Medium Pink Bead Thank you for my church, help us to be a sign of your love in our community.
Light Pink Bead Thank you for fun and friendship. Loving God, hear my prayer
Round Bead  Giggling, laughing and dancing God, thank you for me! Help me to love others as myself and to live always in the knowledge of your eternal love. Amen.

Friday, December 9, 2016

Advent Week 2: Friday

Family Scripture Reading:
Luke 2:4-6
Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the city of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and family of David, in order to register along with Mary, who was engaged to him, and was with child. While they were there, the days were completed for her to give birth.


Take a walk or if it is to cold have them walk around the house till they say they are to tired to go on.  Then read the Scripture verse and explain that they had to travel a long way to get to Bethlehem.  The city that was told to be where the baby Jesus was to be born.  As a few I wonder questions… example “I wonder if their feet got tired?”

For this food for our journey,
we thank you, loving God.
For this time of friendship,
we thank you, loving God.
For all the blessings of this life,
We thank you, loving God.
Amen

Family Application: Grab a box of spoons or just some from the drawer and explain that spoon prayer (below).  Have each person or if the child is to young help them say it.  Take a piece of paper and write out the spoon prayer.  Put in the slots things that apply to your family.  For example under saying sorry, write something about the wrongs that have been done and how we are sorry for what we did and that they are now forgiven.  Under praise, what are ways that your family can praise God today?  What blessings has he given?  Under others, who are the people that you as a family can be in prayer for?   Needs, are not our wants, they are things like spending more time as a family or need a new car or house. 


An example of a gift / Family Craft Project—  When you are out as a family, pay for someone’s meal or buy coffee for someone.  Find a way to give to a stranger and give them a Christmas card that you have signed or drawn on as a family.

Spoons Prayer
The letters of SPOON can be used as a framework for prayer:
S - saying sorry
P - praise
O - others
O - ourselves
N - needs
Adapted from a Pray Without Ceasing Resource Booklet prepared by the Oxford and Leicester District.